Commenting is something I don't do often, because it might throw me off the balance that I am so precious about haha, but once in blue moon I take risks and considering the topic I feel like it's worth a go. Libra (September 23 - October 22) She may have a hard time . I know two Libras. I was so offended. I found the article to be amusing, thought-provoking and mostly true of most people, no matter what their sign. I normally got along with everyone. (2) I didn't have to work (I had investment income). RELATED:The Saddest Zodiac Signs That Are Most Likely To Be Depressed. She thinks I walked out on her? They know what needs to be done in order to get what they want,and its most likely theyll get it one way or another. Very moody. Diplomatic, graceful, charming and even witty! The other libra I know, is charming also. Like someone mentioned in a comments below, Libras have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate and they should definetely trust that. Mr Libra 2 also had LOT of Scorpio. I do whatever makes my lover happy just to keep the harmony and passion between us. When she is feeling down, she may decide that she needs to end relationships or start new ones. The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. Often, the question "Why?" I will never approach you or talk to you because I already gotten more than a 1k people that you know and I know on my side. 3.) Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. We need to hear someone saying out loud that the stuff is going to be okay, otherwise if we don't hear it, we don't consider it real. Very nice guy. When he learned I didn't own a car, he would "insist" on driving home from class. has no answer. Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. They will, only and only if it's required. If you piss off or let a Libran down, do not both trying to: because they know what you did and your ability to do it again. drew new lines in 1930. Mr. Libra 2 was so sly and subtle that it took me several months to figure out he was an abusive controoling person. In fact the reason why i am here is because i just googled the dark side of Libras today morning. The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. I hate drama, and i am not sociable either. he is nothing like my mom. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. She was not a perfect person, but she did help many, many people and was instrumental in laying the groundwork to raise consciousness from the 3rd to the 4th dimension. Or is it the karma ? 1) He acts shy when he is around you. The second was a much much older woman that I used to work with was such a liar I mean she lied about everything she would embellish the facts so much so that it made everyone around her smile because they knew what she was up to and still she carried on, it became a bit of a joke amongst the staff, but the thing that stood out for me was how unbelievably cold hearted this woman was, I mean stone cold ruthless to the core, this libra was married, had been for many many years had several children with her husband apparently had suffered much abuse from her husband but continued to live with him because it suited her financially, her words, not mine! Libra These folks are really the sweetest! Freaking true to the core. Manipulators bring nothing but pain and headaches according to any Libra. Most things are always flowery in tone. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. ( I'm an aquarius.) I have yet to find a Libra female who is willing to be a real friend instead of being jealous and gossipy. I invited her to be part of a group, and they made fun of her "opening monologue" behind her back. I ended up feeling hurt and confused because I saw the signs that said he didnt want to be with me but kept pursuing anyways. My family and friends are being very supportive while my lover soon to be my ex is just busy with his new job. What The. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. I learned the term for what Libras do to create this unnecessary drama it's called TRIANGULATION! Finally, to our regret, years later we gave up and let the kids go since she was ruining our and their lives in the process of her severe selfishness. Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. The first Libra guy became interested in me from a far by noticing me on Facebook when I commented on a mutual college friend's photo (which included Mr. Libra) and I said (you guys look like a GQ magazine cover). Trust me, I am a Libra I know what kind of demon we can be. o que associo a cada signo aries: personalidade touro: inflexvel gmeos: ingenuidade cncer: terapia (precisam mt) leo: ignorncia virgem: sociopatia libra: inconvenincia escorpio: intimidade sagitrio: hide sadness behind beautiful smile aquario: metidos peixes: sonsos How can I help a sad Libra? Do Libras hide their emotions? However I met a libra and she's like me but diffrent. Most good tennis players are Librans and are very bad losers. and YES guess sometimes I lose hope. This is also called sosiopathic. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. 04/13Libra He's friendly in that way which confuses me now a lot. And I took my chances and went to Japan, and for my surprise he had prepared a space for me to sleep with improvised curtains, giving me total privacy. Libras a diplomatic people we dont like to be mistreated or treated unfairly nor like it being done to other people yes I am lazy and charming and very indecisive but yes Libras are very sweet and loyal ppl but if we dnt get it back in return yes Im throwing a fit. A sign of a libra man trying to hide his feelings is that he acts shy when around you. We work from the shadows, you'd figure that would be a Scorpio thing being ruled by Pluto, but despite being ruled by Venus, our (hermit) like needs tend to make us more powerful in our endeavors when we are in solitude to let our mental powers loose. A Libra woman may choose to no longer focus on aspects of her life that she once valued. ), I want to add something. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. but when i read this i was like wow. To pull you in, a libra will start to compliment or encourage you. Once they see that another can give better, they will give themselves over to another (but they wont leave you, ever. Nobody tells scorpios what to do. I'm a Capricorn we are smarter than this. Libras are the nicest people of all the signs until you rub us the wrong way. For me i prefer friends who speak brutal true than sweet but fake words. So.. (how do I express myself without sounding like a total Libra) I would love to discuss some of the points of this article just to shine light from the PERSONAL perspective not to justify our behaviour, not to disrespect other points of views, but just to try and explain. I'm not. Libras are level headed and tend to think through all things rationally, but when their heart is broken, things can change. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. They seem hyper-vigilant, forcing themselves to "go through the motions," but nothing really impresses them. Why Do Libras Hide Their Feelings? I am able to bind and twist words in my favour, utilising their double meanings. Been with one for 3 1/2 years. So while the posted article was interesting, it basically told one aspect of a particularly warped type of Libra. I must agree with fellow commentors that your distaste for this sign is merely a reflection of your own negativity and distorted observations. Scorpio's passion can turn negative when they're feeling sad or depressed, causing them to become hostile, isolated, and have violent mood swings. Some people agreeing with this in its whole has proven they know and strongly dislike a certain libra in their life, and have no reason to disagree because of the obvious pain THAT negative libra has caused. If you think libras like the fine things and fancy clothes, they want the best public image as well. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? A Libra woman may decide that it is acceptable to simply ignore or dismiss topics that she doesn't want to speak about. I like to surround myself with positive happy people. Take time to self-reflect and grow as a person. seems the guys dont stay very long wonder why . Candice NY from NYC on December 02, 2018: Libras are great as long as you keep it superficial. BUT dont forget the good as long as you stay on their good side theyll spoil you be your shoulder to cry on and alot more. Our home is where we are the most stubborn, the most controlling, unyielding, vengeful selves. For what. Ive been so bad to you all this time. The more articulate Libras will quote Gandhi: Hate the sin but love the sinner., George Zimmerman, killer of Trayvon Martin (Oct. 5). As time progresses, a Libra woman may become more ready to respond to people in a sharp or cruel manner. Until after we became roommates did I see time & time again her inability to ever defend me. Mr. Libra 2 was buying me gifts, showing up at my house (uninvited) and sent me a message saying he "Loved me with every fiber of his being"! It's hard to be happy for someone you don't genuinely click with. RELATED: What An Aquarius Really Thinks About You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign. I have my absolutely awful moments when I break someone's trust, when I hurt someone's feelings, and try to control everything and act like it's not my fault. But when with him, its a real fight not to let myself go to that dark, vindictive, ruthless place. This has happened to me more than twice in my life at very different times and situations(in a relationship, almost boyfriend, friend, boss) with men and women libras. He also took me around by car to show wonderful places etc. However, you shouldn't forget that Libras are assholes and don't buy their shit, unless you test them. I was overwhelmed and tearful as it was my dad who gave me it in advance, and it was the first time he told me he loved me - I am telling her the story, she wasn't interested and tried to turn it all back to her new Prey, a new man. How To Impress Libra Men? Most Libras are quick to put a wall up to protect themselves from insecure, jealous, judgemental, negative, condescending people who attack them. Nosy and users of others' lives. Then she would victimize herself and blame everyone around her. my brother and daughter are both libra and my brother has 3 boys. Hard to get anything out of someone that hides behind a fake smile. This article and comments have really opened my eyes. When that happens, I've learned to respect myself and just move on. Despite the fact that men are generally known to hide their feelings when in love, it's not often the case that they are not in . Throughout the majority of her life, a Libra woman is aware of herself when she makes decisions. Another one I knew years later did the same; hard to believe, but true! She wants to feel free and keep it light, turning away naturally from people whose characteristics feel too negative or intense for her. While I am now guilty of generalizing also, I have to say that I know that depending on the time one is born under the Libra sign, as well as at which day in October can all play a part in a Libra being the exception to the rule as far as whether they exhibit classic Libra traits. Be Mysterious. Librans want peace and negative ones want it at any price, even if it means sneaking around, denying, controlling, and drama. 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