Just answer honestly and with as much detail as possible. Maybe this . Letting go of expectations is another very significant aspect of this path. Once you accept the truth of the fact that you are part of a twin flame soul bond, surrendering to the twin flames experience is going to bring in conscious awareness of the spiritual connection with your twin. One of those expectations is the idea that a twin flame bond is romantic by definition. But that was yet another slap in my face, it instantly struck me that I was the masculine version in our relationship & he was pointing that out So he chose to come at me in all his feminine glory. We just smile at each other and often have big loving hugs. Have you reached the end of your rope with your twin flame? We need to accept (and fully understand) that the twin journey is a spiritual connection. Here's everything you need to know about Twin Flame Feminine Surrender. It doesnt mean we have to forget them just as long as our focus is on actively improving things and not sitting back and waiting for it. The more unconditional love you will feel, the closer you will be spiritually and emotionally to your twin, the collective, and the source. You will find yourself questioning your twin flame about this feeling. Youve stopped struggling because you know that whats meant to be will always find its way to you. Incidentally, this is the foremost requirement for spiritual growth. Its got me feeling crazy. The first step is the easy one. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Copyright 2022 Spiritualunite.com All rights reserved. You realize that you need to improve yourself, for change should come deep within yourself. The surrender stage gives us this energy to help us push our goals forward. You need to rest, and you must recuperate; being refreshed and full of energy is vital for what is ahead. Him saying what he said woke me right up though. For many reasons. Lol. I started thinking for the first time that maybe I was wrong, that maybe this karmic partner was really my TF. The realization that this is the next phase of the twin flame journey is exciting. Now my minds been blown wide open. You know that good things will only occur if you surrender yourself. Heres everything you need to know about Twin Flame Feminine Surrender. Thats why surrendering is often a good sign. I feel like I have no privacy. You know for a fact that youve done all that you can do. Twin flame divine feminine is a powerful force to be reckoned with because it is the vehicle of your soul's connection with the divine feminine. I want to know more, I do, but Id like it to be with my new TF in person. I guess he knows now there is. You have found your strength again and learned that negativity only pops up from your own weaknesses and ego. From twin flames to psychics to dream interpretation, we cover it all. Which I find extremely sexy in a man. You discovered that you can and have accepted the means to connect with your twin flame energetically, astrally, and even learn to use the telepathic connection between you. Who knows? Later I contacted him for it, hed sold it, but then began hitting on me. You open your self and be willing to participate in the most profound types of healing. Letting go of control is one of the toughest lessons along your path towards ascension and ultimately twin flame union. It can be hard to know exactly whatyou should start doing but my advice is not to stress yourself over it. He was also thirteen years youthful than myself. relax into total "surrender state" as a twin flame. After my twin cut me off, one of the first things I discovered about Twin Flames was that surrender was an integral part of the process. We always know what we did and how they feel; no words are needed. Get this, the first time I was going to bind him from me forever, I felt so much sadness from it, I was in tears & stopped what I was doing. Yet I cant wait to be in his arms again. time letting go of what he wrote to me go & all his stalking. One guy that asked me out was younger than me too, he was someone my daughter brought over as a date, he ended up hitting on me. Again (I always say this so I dont alarm anyway) theresno set roadmap for the twin flame journey. This might mean focusing on your work, it might mean getting to the gym and focusing on your health. When you surrender to your twin flame journey, you connect spiritually to your counterpart and then manifest that connection in the 3D. Its not. It sticks out like a sore toe because you are not used to feeling so relaxed and chilled out. That is if you resist the urge to fight against it. He was also 13 years younger than myself. Even if youve separated which is temporary, of course this connection is a constant reminder that youre both destined for each other. Notice how your twin flame telepathy has become stronger? Quite the opposite in fact. Now how do I let this letter he wrote to me go? I wanted this new guy to see exactly how beautiful I was, how I saw myself under all the weight Id gained to protect myself from love. He confirmed his stalking on my Quora. You change your views and outlook in life towards opening your eyes to the truth. If you take a few moments to tell me about your journey so far, I'll send you a free twin flame reading to help guide you onward towards union. Your soul and higher self as well as your twin will guide you as to how to surrender at every step along the way, but it wont be an easy process so dont expect it to simply happen overnight. One thing I want to make clear, I dont nor have I ever felt like Im in any danger. Your twin flame will feel the change since you are both tuned into the same energy frequency that vibrates through both of your hearts. Is this EVER going to level out? Experienced with anyone for many many years, it jogged my memory of what I felt for my first TF. That doesnt mean that youre always going to reach union in this lifetime but youre never going to completely detach from them. Once you manage to fully surrender to your sacred twin flame mission and you make progress towards ascension, you will experience a sense of fulfillment and bliss like youve never experienced before. That guy was embracing his Anytime Ive ever witnessed a man do this, its always been extremely sexy to me. He never knew. I actually did reach a type of surrender a week or two ago. This isnt just about a romantic connection and our physical body. The divine feminine is a manifestation of the feminine principle in its most powerful forman aspect of the Goddess who embodies all aspects of femininity. Youll take better care of yourself and see success in areas you may need been stuck with earlier than. Its a matter of recognizing your own gifts and using them to contribute to the world.. And while it may be painful to be away from them, time is no match for your bond. 2.) . Twin flame encounters support our consciousness evolution journey which contributes to the planet's ascension. I understand Ive recreated that scenario over & over in my karmic cycle. I can honestly say I finally have done that. Couldnt he have manned up & confronted me? You know youve surrendered yourself fully once youve focused on the things that make you happy. Whether they manage to surrender to it during this human experience or not is all up to their level of spiritual and emotional growth and just how prepared they are for the ascension process. We sometimes include products we think are useful for our readers. I see it all very very clearly. These might be professional, physical, emotional or spiritual. It was painful, but during my journey I began letting go of constructs, one being that this other person from now 31 years ago was my real TF. We cant attempt to rush through the surrender stage or force it to happen toget it over with. It was completely different, and the gifted spiritual advisor there really helped me understand the pattern of the twin flame chaser surrender. This is simply potential though, if you have done all the mandatory healing work on your self and have learned the method to detach from them. We go to each other and make it right as quickly as we can. Id say it to myself then just as quickly dismiss it. You finally take the time to eat right and exercise more, among other beautiful things. I contacted him twice to buy things. Since they help you improve yourself, they can prepare you well for an eventual twin flame reunion. Surrender is a never ending course of. He had me that freaked out this entire last year. This TF journey is A LOT bigger than ANYONE realizes. I told him Id been waiting for someone for 29 years point, I knowit bothered him. Generally, they give you (and themselves) an excuse like they're not ready for a commitment or whatever line makes sense to them. The DM is commonly the twin flame runner who finds an excuse to get away from the chaser. Copyright 2023 therelationshipinsider.com. I suddenly had energy I didnt have in years, .y pain levels went down. Psychologist Robert W. Firestone, Ph.D. describes it as something that represents a movement toward self-realization and transcendent goals in life; its primary aim is mastery of self, not others., It is self-assertion and a natural, healthy striving for love, satisfaction, and meaning in ones interpersonal world.. They began having vivid goals and downloads extra incessantly or they merely felt intuitively, in such a powerful way that is hard to understand and clarify. We laugh now when we see either of us display old behavior. Its something every twin flame has to deal with, and youre well equipped to do it. Hes lucky I didnt call law enforcement on him. I learned a lot of beautiful lessons with my first TF I wouldnt change for anything or anyone. Moreover, your feelings of attraction might develop stronger over time. Youre not surrendering yourself, youre surrenderingto the path. I was in my comfort zone, completely enveloped in my 31 year fantasy, just to have someone I dated two years ago come & burst my fantasy bubble wide open. As the twin flame chaser in the relationship, you must've grown tired of pursuing the 'runner.' This stage - also known as surrender - is normal. It took him a few months to get me to go out with him, to finally meet him in person. It isnt about giving up on the twin flame connection or giving up to the twin flame runners will. I decided after driving all the way here that I feel like a fool again, wanting so desperately to believe in this intense love but also beginning to see it as unhealthy too. Manifestation for Twin Flames (Powerful Tool). He had his opportunity repeatedly to open up to me about his real feelings & never did. Another downside to the runner-chaser dynamic is that the latter often lets themselves go. There was something about him when we met online that pushed me to meet him physically, like we were meant to meet, no matter how much I told myself otherwise. I mentioned them earlier. It really helps make sense of my journey and what I need to do next - Alexandra. Until I told him to stop. I still believed if we were TFs, wed end up together in the end though. This may draw your twin flame runner back to you. As you proceed your journey, you begin to know why issues happen. Maybe thats my masculinity talking I DO confront people & things in my life if Im confused about them. But he began playing the same games the second time we were together. I dream about him all the time when I didnt dream about my first TF hardly at all until recently. But my emotions are extremely bipolar right now. Is it because hes trying to let me go? Everyone I know just went through the absolute worse year of their lives, most people on the earth did & believe me, for myself I really struggled emotionally.. The twin flame male energy is claimed to endure a healing process. In the surrender stage, you are not looking for to vary something in your life. But I dont feel many people EVER did it for me my entire lifetime, not without feeling I was forcing people to get to know the real me, I dont want to force myself on anyone. - Dan, Thank you very for the light you have given me. I believed I was in that phase, I forced myself to accept circumstances, fight my ego, declare forgiveness. It involves you surrender to different aspects of your ascension process, pretty much. I do know one thing. Twin flames are here on earth to break open old patterns around love and to teach the value of unconditional love by example. But still, you wanted to repeat these same self-sabotaging actions as before. I felt he was proving to me each time we were together that I wasnt worth taking in public or seeing on a regular basis. For one, surrender helps you grow as a person. Even if youve surrendered yourself fully to the chase, youll continue to feel your twin flame. I can help pinpoint if you've met your twin flame already, if you're in a relationship with a false twin flame or what you need to do to meet them if you haven't already. I couldnt have him knowing that. Its about surrendering yourself away from the ego and from focusing entirely on your twin. It can also manifest in different ways, the most popular being intuition. I ended up becoming the runner. You know for a fact that youll be together soon just like you did before. I guess I was nuts too. I cant remember if his profile had a picture, mine did. Him & Id had a lot of on & off contact over the years, always with me chasing him down to do it. The first twin flame surrender symptom you may notice is the feeling you have of inner calm. I didnt like the thought of him watching my every move online How far has his stalking went? Or maybe Im crazy for accepting all of this craziness so easily. Before the surrender, you felt that you were emotionally messed up and hurt. Sirens are often associated with transformation and rebirth. I need to understand things he was going through, not just in my mind, but in person. Youre not a twin flame because you can only handle easy stuff, though. Its about focusingon yourself and your own journey instead. When the female power rises, the masculine power supplies them with enough time to develop. Just make sure you agree to our. Youre dealing with lifetimes of karma and history, issues related to each human experience coming through and bubbling to the surface as a result of your ascension. Though it takes a lot of work, once you let go of the different patterns and conditioning that affect the twin flame experience, aspects that relate to human experience conditioning and 3D experiences, you will make great strides towards your twin flame merging phase. I was correct, but it wasnt my 31 year TF who contacted me, it was this long lost guy from 2019 that I really did my best not to think about & he was upset about one of my Quora posts & ripped me hard for it. A universal rule on the journey is that when youre able to focus on your own journey, your twin is going to do the same thing. Ive ALWAYS been about what I sense from people, the energy has to be there or I wont explore it at all. I can see how desperate I made him. Youre so engrossed with chasing them that you put off life-making decisions, such as getting a new job or moving to a new city. Like my new TF stalking me I knew the entire time we were dating that he was stalking me too. At least I have enough respect not to do that. If youre thinking all the exhausting work has been already carried out at this point, you may be stunned. Its a team effort, and in one way or another, twins will have to surrender to that. What Happens for Twin Flames After Surrender? It is such a catch22 situation because one activates the other. I honestly felt the same way with my second twin flame too, the entire time. The path to your twin flame union is full of pitfalls. I told him Id been waiting for someone for 29 years point, I knowit bothered him. I was in the same place last year when I just finally got tired of chasing my twin flame. Idk what he thought about that But it was fun showing him I felt sexy, I did it all for him. This can create confusion between both of them because the female won't even know where she went wrong. I sold jewelry on this site, occasionally bought things. I was carried out being indoors after isolating for many years, I wished to be surrounded with nature. He seemed happy, but nothing changed. Then it dawned on me who it was. His voice was really strong for a time until I told him to leave me alone because Ive been really upset at what he wrote me publicly & after reading it, I felt he was putting all the blame onto me for us ending & that I wasnt the beautiful person he thought I was. I let go of all outcomes and expectations. You no longer feel stressed about your twin flame union. That had to be fun for people to read lol. Doubt is a perfectly normal part of a twin flame journey. I dont think Ive spoken to a single twin flame who successfully committed to the surrender stage and didnt reach union in this lifetime. Ive gotten great at letting people go, great at waiting my entire life away for someone whos unavailable to become available. I guess hes right in someway, it was a story I was hanging onto for 31 years. I was shown different scenarios of people I could choose to be with over him, in each scenario I always came back to him every time. Thats how we met. And the biggest reason to accept the surrender to it all is that there is no other way to continue. Then I get torn apart by him publicly online, telling me my entire story is fake. A demanding spiritual and emotional experience, the twin flame journey is a constant lesson in unconditional love and surrendering. I know we need to hold each other in a higher version of ourselves. If you have been obsessing over your twin flame union, you start to chill and just allow it. open the way for effortless flow of . What Happens During The Twin Flame Separation Stage? Th Continue Reading 270 10 23 Lawrence C. The peace of mind you gain with surrender is priceless and the bliss is delicious. Sometimes the separation phase still involves communication and well spend far too much time thinking about what we should say next. But if you go into the journey expecting that guarantee, you might ruin your chances at actually achieving that final stage. You may have a time when you really feel a lot love and attraction in the direction of your twin flame. Im ready to let it go now but him & I need to talk for that to happen. You are allocated space to prepare for the unconditional love due to flood your life. I excused it. How Do You Know Someone Is Your Twin Flame? So I ran further from him. Maybe thats too much to ask when part of me is in total peace to all of this & the other part of me is still fighting it for all its worth. The closer you get to that end goal, the more lighthearted and joyful youll feel. I feel like I cant do it on Quora now. At first it confused me, I assumed it was my 1st Twin Flame, but he doesnt do social media at all. You become pregnant with love, this makes you want to cook, organize your home, and groom yourself. 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Hed just showed jealousy. What Happens When You Surrender to Twin Flame? You develop an unwavering commitment to improve and prioritize your body and spirit. So I continued to work out like a mad woman. I tried to get him to, he started to in the end, but by then it was too late, I didnt believe him anymore. This time with your partner is restorative. I mean, its easy to get disheartened whenever your twin flame runner denies their feelings and pushes you away. You have achieved so much with the inner work you worked so hard to complete that you deserve 5-star treatment as your reward. Hearing him in my mind, I thought I was losing my mind. The soul bond is always going to exert pressure on each twin flame to achieve merging frequency, to be in contact, to be in your twin flames presence at the very least in spiritual terms if not physically as well. I know he felt me thinking about him, which I tried not to do at all. We are so glad that we did this, it takes effort within your relationship, but we are happier than ever for it. You no longer care what your twin flame thinks about your hobbies or pastimes. The second time I came back to him I was ready to let go of this person Id been assuming was my twin flame for 29 years just to see if what I was feeling was real. Thinking someone else was my TF, probably sent him on quite the journey himself, wondering if there was something to everything I spent three decades believing. Surrender does more than just bring personal improvement. Youre doing that makes you happy because you know in your heart that you deserve them. In order for the chaser to surrender they need to pull back on the chase and let the runner catch their breath. The chilled vibe the runner feels from the chaser after they pull back makes all the difference in how long the surrender process takes to initiate and complete. He is someone Ill always love, but I no longer see him as a person Id get into a relationship with. This welcome change of pace takes the weight off your shoulders and allows you to relax. On the higher levels you both knowexactly why this is happening but how that manifests on the 3D is going to vary wildly. And Im NOT normally like that in relationships. Which was why my 31 year fantasy TF worked so perfectly for me for so long. I used Quora a lot. For us, it is emotional when one of us is emotionally pulled away from the other if we felt chased. You may be under the impression that you can control the pace or timing of events along this path. The more you understand about the journey, the easier that becomes. Hypersthene Spiritual Meaning: Unleashing the Power of Third Eye Activation, Rooster Spiritual Meaning: More Than Just a Farm Animal, Flamingo Spiritual Meaning: Discover the Powerful Significance. I feel like the ONLY way to resolve things between us is talking physically. 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